Dumped :(

[Ollie]

Yesterday my girlfriend of one year (last sunday) finished with me. I'm not really sure why I'm telling you guys as if you would care, I'm very sad, I really wanted it to work, I haven't had many girlfriends, but I don't want anyone else ever, I only want her. I feel like I'm mourning as if someone has died, I just don't know what to do with myself at all, everything I have come to love about my life over the past year has been taken from me smashed into small pieces and shoved through my heart, I can't stop crying, pathetic I know. Thanks for listening.

[Sexual Chocolate]

Awww man you sound really down in the dumps, I hope it gets better for you.

[ReZourceman]

Pathetic? No my friend. Youll get through this, and if you need to talk about it some more, we are here.

Sorry to hear it.

[EEVILMURRAY]

Listen to some Billy Joel/Barry White [I can supply you with some of either]. Brings back some romantic memories = gets them out of your system. Even if you want to squeeze out a few tears that's alright also. Then slam on some rock [I recommend Andrew WK]. Works for me.

[JonSt]

Her Loss, keep your chin up and battle on.

[Ryan]

Naive to say you only want her, then someone else comes along. You'll get over it..

[Dan Dare]

It's not pathetic man. there's little else that can really send you reeling like loosing something special with somebody. My advice would be to think about it, get it out of your system and talk it over with a close friend. It's not a weakness to need a helping hand :)

[Jordan]

Its not at all, being dumped is a horrible horrible thing. Especially when the other person just out right and tells you to piss off rather than explain why they don't wanna see you anymore.

You'll get through it Oli, don't worry :)

[Shorty]

Go drink your sorrows away. I do.

[The Bard]

Go drink your sorrows away. I do.

Close friends and a bottle of rum is what you need my friend, I know what it feels like to be rejected, and even though I've never been dumped, you just need to be open and let your emotions out, with someone who knows you and who'll be sympathetic.

[Jordan]

Go drink your sorrows away. I do.



Close friends and a bottle of rum is what you need my friend, I know what it feels like to be rejected, and even though I've never been dumped, you just need to be open and let your emotions out, with someone who knows you and who'll be sympathetic.

Drinking yourself to death isn't gunna anyone any good...

[The Bard]

Who said "to death"...? And drinking can do a lot of good.

[Shorty]

Drinking yourself to death isn't gunna anyone any good...
I never claimed it would help :heh:

[Colin]

I find that a bathtub full of warm water and a razor blade does the trick
Rules of Attraction styleee. (American version)
Her Loss, keep your chin up and battle on.
Best way to think I'd say aswell.

[arab_freak]

There's plenty of fish in the sea, so grab your fishing rod and go fish.

[weeyellowbloke]

Trying to think of what to reply here all I could think up were ridiculous cliches. Sometimes things happen which you don't want to happen, that's life, but as time moves on it will hurt less and perhaps new opportunities will open up. That's the best I've got to offer.

[Ollie]

Thanks guys, you are all great. And I know it is nieve to think that I don't want anyone else, but right now it is the wierdest thing to think of me or her being with anyone else, it will pass with time I guess :hmm: .

For those of you in relationships right now, don't take it for granted, go buy some flowers and tell your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife whatever that you love them. I believe strongly in karma, and what goes around comes around. I don't know what I did to deserve this but it must have been something horrible.

Be good.

[Haden]

Ah man that is awful. Take it slowly and mourn its good for you as you have lost something. But you will meet someone else even though at the moment you probably don't want to. When you meet someone else and have kids though you can be a supportive dad when your kid has his/her first break up! But yeh sorry :S

[/ nando /]

..I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and I can only imagine how horrible it would be to lose her or to find out that she doesn't want me anymore..

I've been through one break up before.. after about 4 months.. but we were never in love and in reality, weren't actually all that close :hmm: ..so it didn't take me long to get over it and I actually got together with my girlfriend relatively shortly after it because it just felt right.. and I know that if I lost her, I'd feel like that was it for me and that I'd never want anyone else and it'd kill me to see her with anyone else, but I pray that it never happens as we love each other a lot..

All I can say is I'm very sorry to hear about you and hope you get through it whatever way you can.. because you will :smile: ..All the best!

[Roostophe]

I don't know what it's like to break up with your gf like that. Me and my ex-gf just became friends after our 'relationship' (it didn't work). But it seems terrible if you break up and you adored her a lot. And no, it's not pathetic. It's better to look to friends for comfort than the bottom of a pint. (That sounded stupid) You're a sound guy, although I don't know you too well. But I hope you find someone else, Oli. :smile:

[Kurtle Squad]

Yeah...It's definately not pathetic; I had a really horrible upsetty thing with my gf (before we were going out, but we loved each other; long story) just before we decided to be with each other, and i felt SO shit about it all.

If she broke up with me near our 1 year (Dec 5th) I'd be devestated; I wouldn't know what to do, other than possibly kill myself.

[MoogleViper]

There's plenty of fish in the sea, so grab your fishing rod and go fish.

That metaphor can be taken two ways. Both of which will make you feel good.

[Ten10]

Just make sure you don't listen to any songs about togetherness. It will make you feel worse.

[Stefkov]

That metaphor can be taken two ways. Both of which will make you feel good.
lmao, lovin it.
Sad thing being dumped, however i havnt been dumped, as i have never had a girlfriend. There was a thing in my mind that told me to finish with education then go get a girlfriend.

[LukeLee]

Sorry to hear about your experience. A few months ago i split up with my partner of 3 years. I know how much someone can want it to work out, even if they're not really right together (as in my case).

It will take time to feel better, but with distance and time you'll begin to move on, you'll think about them alot less and feel ready to really move on.

[Ford Prefect]

not sure if i can really speak on this topic as i've only had one relationship which lasted all of 3 months, that was 3.5 years ago now.

right now you think "thats the only person i could/can ever love" but whatever you feel now, it will change over time. i thought the same thing all that time ago, i look back now and think "what a ****" because i still don't believe i know what love really is. right now i'm in a little town in norway, working and seem to be getting attention from all corners, first i was scared shitless as i ain't used to it but now i'm trying to take it in my stride. the same kind of thing will probably happen to you.

i'm a little drunk right now, my english is getting more fucked up by the day thanks to this place, but all i can do really is say try and cheer up, its not the end of the world tho it may well seem like it is! "England expects every man to do his duty" come rain or shine, good or shitty you have to be up and at em all the time.....


*shuffles off*

[Tony_Montana]

Yesterday my girlfriend of one year (last sunday) finished with me. I'm not really sure why I'm telling you guys as if you would care, I'm very sad, I really wanted it to work, I haven't had many girlfriends, but I don't want anyone else ever, I only want her. I feel like I'm mourning as if someone has died, I just don't know what to do with myself at all, everything I have come to love about my life over the past year has been taken from me smashed into small pieces and shoved through my heart, I can't stop crying, pathetic I know. Thanks for listening.

dry your eyes buddy err mate

there's plenty of fish in the sea

just when you think she's the best, there couldn't better, you are WRONG! there's always a better one

get yourself together buddy err mate, move along, don't let her ruin rest of your life

lmao, lovin it.
Sad thing being dumped, however i havnt been dumped, as i have never had a girlfriend. There was a thing in my mind that told me to finish with education then go get a girlfriend.

ok then ....

[Calibur]

I've been there dude. My highschool sweetheart girlfriend of 4 years called it quits about a year ago, I was the exact same, didn't want to do anything at all with myself and I thought it would never pass, but it does get better.

Time heals all wounds mate, just keep your chin up.

[Platty]

Im sorry to hear this mate. I split from my girlfriend of a year last september...it was horrible, just like yourself i didnt know what to do and was in a bit of a mess but as the days passed it got better and i hardly ever think about her now.

Cry as much as you want, it's needed but as many other guys have stated it does get better despite how down you are feeling at the moment.

Go out with friends, that's always good. :)