life in general

[Slaggis]

why does it always have to bite you in the ass!

Your havin a really good day/week or whatever and then bam! it drags you back down!

I am no emo or anything like that its just i am pissed off. Why does everythin have to always go wrong?

is it karma? fate? or just god being spiteful!?

[Caris]

There has to be a balance.

Trust me, im god.

[Fields]

IT'S FUCKING SHITE ISN'T IT? :mad:

[Whizkid]

I beleve in karma so i try and do good things.

[Samdecahedron]

It's just life. Life is full of great stuff, and bad stuff. Some people (like me) focus more on the bad side, and it seems like everything is fucked up, when really it's not as bad as you think. Before you realise it, stuff will be good again and you'll read this post and think 'i can't believe i was that down'. Don't let it drag you down, because it's not a very nice place in 'the down'.

[Slaggis]

it just makes me feel as tho there must be someone out there that hates me lol


i have had a crap 3 years, my parents on verge of splitting, my sister turing into a violent drug addict and stealing all my things.
I was finally feeling good about myself, we had thrown my sis out, woo.

An then BAM! She turns up last night, attacks my mum, tries to kill herself by takin a bottle of pills and she is now in some hospital either dying or being assesed under the mental health act.

Life, its like one big episode of the O.C

[Samdecahedron]

it just makes me feel as tho there must be someone out there that hates me lol


i have had a crap 3 years, my parents on verge of splitting, my sister turing into a violent drug addict and stealing all my things.
I was finally feeling good about myself, we had thrown my sis out, woo.

An then BAM! She turns up last night, attacks my mum, tries to kill herself by takin a bottle of pills and she is now in some hospital either dying or being assesed under the mental health act.

Life, its like one big episode of the O.C

Sorry to hear that man. A few years back, a load of shit happened to me and i felt like it was all crap, but i feel pretty good now, just stay strong, even if you feel like you can't.

[Slaggis]

thx man, i bet youy its karma ! i absolutley hate my sis (dont even class her as my sis now but heh) and i kept wishing last night, and have before, that she would just die from the overdose or any other way in fact because its goin to happen sometime and in my mind all i can think is the sooner the better.

Instead of carin bout my sis last night i was thinkin "if she dies that means my trip to france is probs off"


You are all gonna think that make me such a bad person but it doesn't, really, live with he for 3 years. lol


Karma is real!:p

[Caris]

Ive a shit past few year, family issues, bad as well not just small little things and i totally know where your coming from when you say soon as you feel good something happens. You just gotta say posative and it will finally come through.

[Cube]

The thing with life is that you take all the good things for granted, when they peobably happen much more often than the bad stuff. But, thanks to SHE (Simple Human Emotion), we focus on the bad things.


So....


Always look on the bright side of life
*attempts to whistle*

[Samdecahedron]

You are all gonna think that make me such a bad person but it doesn't, really, live with he for 3 years.

Not really, i hated my Dad, and he recently died, i didn't care at all really. Family or not, people can turn into such idiots you just stop caring for them.

[McMad]

Life, its like one big episode of the O.C

Shit we're all gonna get cancelled?

[Slaggis]

wow! you are actually the first person to ever say that to me, everyone else, including most of my friends think thats really bad and i dont mean it!


Everyone else should post there problems on here! we will help you sort em' out!!

you might think i am being strange her but the only thing that has kept me sane of the past few weeks is Skins on E4 (is that wierd lol)

[Caris]

wow! you are actually the first person to ever say that to me, everyone else, including most of my friends think thats really bad and i dont mean it!


Everyone else should post there problems on here! we will help you sort em' out!!

you might think i am being strange her but the only thing that has kept me sane of the past few weeks is Skins on E4 (is that wierd lol)

Nope when i feel low i stick on trouble or something and watch some funny TV to keep my spirits high.

[The Bard]

Well that's how were kept in line, feeling miserable, constantly tamed by the hope of a better day. If we had any sense we would break out of this monotonous cycle and stop letting other people affect us, but hey, such is life.

Sorry, bit cynical?

[Slaggis]

well, thanks for listening to waht i had to say, i feel a bit better now (wooo!)

I am gonna scream at my english teacher tomorrow, because i am so angry and she makes it worse + its not good to keep anger in lol

Well that's how were kept in line, feeling miserable, constantly tamed by the hope of a better day. If we had any sense we would break out of this monotonous cycle and stop letting other people affect us, but hey, such is life.

Sorry, bit cynical?


Cynical - yes
true - more so

[DomJcg]

you might think i am being strange her but the only thing that has kept me sane of the past few weeks is Skins on E4 (is that wierd lol)

thats what your life is like, skins, the episode where it all goes wrong for sid. But im sorry to hear all of that =| sounds like you've been through enough for any one person to deal with

[Slaggis]

yeh skins is really good, people keep moaning saying its over-exaggerated but it really isn't! (one of my best mates said that was just like what was happening to me!lol)

[Fierce_LiNk]

Life is a tricky business. It's just sometimes how you find yourself in certain situations and you think "hmm, how did we end up here, eh?"

If anything, it just means you should enjoy the goodtimes, as sometimes they can be shortlived.

[Slaggis]

lol i just got back from york hospital(i have been havin headaches) and i need to go for a brain scan because i "may" have a brain tumour.

Why oh why is life like this!!!



Lets now make this thread happy!plz!

[Charlie]

The last couple of years have probably been my best yet. I've been going out loads more (every weekend basically), made loads of new friends, on the verge of going to the Uni I want if I can get the grades (which I should be able to do), life is looking good for me. :)

[Stefkov]

Family life hasnt been good. Past couple years have been falling apart.
My life has been going alright, got to college made some new friends.
I dont drink so basically I dont go out much with them, all it is, is go out/to their house to drink, which I dont wanna do. Everything else is fine.
Apart from college. I wanna skip it and go sraight to Uni and learn what I want to learn.

"People cannot gain anything without sacrificing something. You must present something of equal value to gain something. This is the principle of equivalent trade."
I love fullmetal Alchemist mainly for this quote.

[That Guy]

I've had a fairly decent 6 months or so. The only problem I have is that I see no way of me getting a girlfriend. Bit shit, but I'm just keeping myself happy by spending all my money on myself. Meh..

[My Buttons are Magic!]

i had a pretty good month - then it went a bit pants -

1. Pulled a muslce in my shoulder
2. Punctured 2 tyres
3. huge bruise on my leg that hurts like hell
4. *cries* a dickhead of a guy got promoted in work.. over me.. i have no idea why :cry:

[The Bard]

I've had a fairly decent 6 months or so. The only problem I have is that I see no way of me getting a girlfriend. Bit shit, but I'm just keeping myself happy by spending all my money on myself. Meh..

Girlfriends are overrated. Trust me.

[Jasper]

It's faith. I strongly believe in things happening because they should. This makes it possible to flow in life. But it's true - the good things always seem to turn out bad eventually. But on the other hand, without the bad ones, the good wouldn't taste half as good.

[Ellmeister]

Wheres a smiley for hugging when you need one!!!

Seriously sounds like you lot have been through a hell of a lot worse than me :hmm:

I had a bad week last week because I got a U in a spanish test and my girlfriend went on holiday... but woooah you guys have it bad.. sorry, things will get better :D KARMA FTW! Also don't step on 3 drains.

[Charlie]

I've had a fairly decent 6 months or so. The only problem I have is that I see no way of me getting a girlfriend. Bit shit, but I'm just keeping myself happy by spending all my money on myself. Meh..

You know, 2 weeks ago I thought exactly the same thing, but then out of the blue I met a girl who I got on really well with and I'm now 'seeing' her regularly.

[That Guy]

You know, 2 weeks ago I thought exactly the same thing, but then out of the blue I met a girl who I got on really well with and I'm now 'seeing' her regularly.

I keep hoping the same will happen to me, but I just don't go to enough places to meet someone. I'm either at work, or I might go to Gamestation occasionally, or I'll go out to Birmingham. Not exactly places for meeting a someone nice are they?

I don't really know where to go to meet girls. I've only ever had one proper girlfriend. Bit annoying.

[Charlie]

You're 19, go out with some mates to a club or even a bar. Have a few drinks and get up and dance. All the girls will be drunk, you'll be drunk, go up to a few and see what happens. Put your arms around her waist, 9 times out of 10 she'll put her arms around you too. Then stay with her for a while, say something good to her and move in to pull her. If she pulls away, no big deal, you'll never see her again, if you do pull, get her number, buy her a drink and start talking to her.

[welsh_gamer]

I don't really know where to go to meet girls. I've only ever had one proper girlfriend. Bit annoying.

Same here. I know how you feel. A bit sad sometimes. And it's more difficult to pull for us blokes than Moria makes out!

[4q2]

There has to be a balance.

Trust me, im god.

And I'm around to make sure the scales always tip, cos I'm satan :heh:

Life is a rollercoaster of ups and downs.
Without the downs in life, the ups would seem less worthwhile and rewarding.

[Fierce_LiNk]

You're 19, go out with some mates to a club or even a bar. Have a few drinks and get up and dance. All the girls will be drunk, you'll be drunk, go up to a few and see what happens. Put your arms around her waist, 9 times out of 10 she'll put her arms around you too. Then stay with her for a while, say something good to her and move in to pull her. If she pulls away, no big deal, you'll never see her again, if you do pull, get her number, buy her a drink and start talking to her.

Are you even old enough to get into a club?! You're like 14, right?

[The Bard]

Pfft, I'm not old enough to get into clubs, but I have been doing since I was 15.

[Ellmeister]

Are we allowed to say fake ID's ftw?
Clubs are great although there are other places.. try the library, or a museum-those places never fail for me to meet some hot chick!

[Slaggis]

wooo fake I.D's!!

(i seriously need to get a life!)


by the way, my sister is out of hospital and is now moved back to a house somewhere in lincoln, 180 miles away from where i am....yay!

No more her! now just have to wait and hope i dont have a brain tumour!
lol...life...it really does suck....but then it does get better....eventually. hopefully.....it wil!!!

[uəʌəsʎɐɾ]

You're 19, go out with some mates to a club or even a bar. Have a few drinks and get up and dance. All the girls will be drunk, you'll be drunk, go up to a few and see what happens. Put your arms around her waist, 9 times out of 10 she'll put her arms around you too. Then stay with her for a while, say something good to her and move in to pull her. If she pulls away, no big deal, you'll never see her again, if you do pull, get her number, buy her a drink and start talking to her.

^ I wouldn't preach that advice :P For a start, don't ask for her number before you buy her a drink or talk to her! Clubs are gay. I wouldn't say they're the right place to meet someone suitable for you if you don't like doing that sort of thing. Say you do find someone and you start seeing each other - she's not going to stop goinbg clubbing, is she? Personally, I'm very glad my girl doesn't do that.

A friend of mine came to visit me last week, and she gave a few of my mates girl advice. We all agree that the best advice she gave for finding a girly was through friends. That's how I met mine. A friend of a friend of a friend that ended up wanted to be more than that.

Unfortunately socialising is pretty much the way to go - Moria's right about just going for it though - there's no REAL harm in just chatting to an attractive girl. There don't have to be strings attached!